More than a few younger women use the, “I have a boyfriend/fiancee” just to throw you off. I usually say something along the lines, of “I asked you of you wanted to grab coffee, not to bend over and grab your ankles, get your mind out of the gutter.” Most younger women use that to let you know that they have a sucker on the hook, and don’t want to give him up. Heck when I was in grad-school, I was the “dirty little secret” of more than one of the sorority girls going for their “MRS” degree… I figured that the reason the groom isn’t to see the bride the night before their wedding is because the bride is being used every way imaginable, and if he saw her being used as a cum-bucket there wouldn’t be a wedding.

Women decide if they are going to cheat – you are just an available cock – nothing more or less. The fault is hers – you are just doing what comes naturally.

I call them both NAWALT sites. I sympathize with a lot of people at these places. They’ve been through the shit, many of them. I think places like these cater to idealism, rather than realism though. Most of the articles on both places sum to: “If we only give webmaster enough money, and sign enough petitions, we can change the world!” In fact, that sort of feeling is usually crippling to the people who need real help and guidance. The world doesn’t need to be changed. If people have problems, it’s because they were originally operating from a false position relative to. Both The Spearhead and AVFM went through phases where they wrote helpful, practical stuff for men. These days, it’s just whining. Go to the average article and change “men” to “women” and you may as well be at the NOW web page.

so I left a comment, it got through, but no replies… odd, considering

so zed leaves a comment, mentions my comment and its similar content to one of his, bill replies, I leave a reply to that… noting that there was no shortage of guys with ace technical abilities that could do what bill was talking about in ten minutes flat, for free… deleted

bill starts talking about forums that are first opened to those who have paid money to support the “site”

I’m going to be charitable and say there is something disingenuous going on, because all I have is a bad feeling and speculation but zero evidence, correlation != causation after all… for all I know bill has been got at by the family courts, tame that shit *right* down or never see your kid again and lose your driving license too…

tell you something else that is correlation, any “MRA” website that starts asking for or taking handouts or subs or donations, soon as money changes hands the whole tone changes.